Sibling nonetheless hounded by insecurity and jealousy | Existence

Dear Abby: My dad and mom divorced once I was 4. I’ve had an issue with insecurity and jealousy for so long as I can keep in mind. I’ve two older sisters who’re twins and a half-brother my stepmom and pa had once I was 18.

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DEAR ABBY is written by Abigail Van Buren, also called Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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